feat: CUDA backend swap via binary download and restart

Add the ability to download a CUDA-enabled backend binary (~2.4 GB) and
swap it in via a backend-only restart, solving the #1 user pain point
(19 open 'GPU not detected' issues caused by GitHub's 2 GB asset limit).

Backend:
- cuda_download.py: download from R2 (primary) or GitHub split-parts
  (fallback), SHA-256 verification, atomic writes, progress via SSE
- 4 new endpoints: GET/POST/DELETE /backend/cuda-*, GET cuda-progress
- server.py: --version flag, auto-detect variant from binary name
- build_binary.py: --cuda flag for CUDA PyInstaller builds
- split_binary.py: split large binaries into <2GB GitHub Release assets
- CI workflow for building CUDA binary

Tauri:
- restart_server command (stop -> wait -> start)
- start_server prefers CUDA binary from {data_dir}/backends/ if present
- Version mismatch check: runs --version before launching CUDA binary

Frontend:
- GpuAcceleration component: download, progress, restart, switch, delete
- API client + types for CUDA status and management
- Platform lifecycle: restartServer() on Tauri/Web
- Aggressive 1s health polling during restart for fast reconnection

app/src/components/ServerTab/ServerTab.tsx

@@ -1,4 +1,5 @@
 import { ConnectionForm } from '@/components/ServerSettings/ConnectionForm';
+import { GpuAcceleration } from '@/components/ServerSettings/GpuAcceleration';
 import { ServerStatus } from '@/components/ServerSettings/ServerStatus';
 import { UpdateStatus } from '@/components/ServerSettings/UpdateStatus';
 import { usePlatform } from '@/platform/PlatformContext';
@@ -11,6 +12,7 @@ export function ServerTab() {
         <ConnectionForm />
         <ServerStatus />
       </div>
+      {platform.metadata.isTauri && <GpuAcceleration />}
       {platform.metadata.isTauri && <UpdateStatus />}
       <div className="py-8 text-center text-sm text-muted-foreground">
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